我有一个疑难

lijie43

我发现大多说华人的奶奶都会在孩子摔了当前喊打他揍他之类的，而后就开始打地板柱子，反正哪里碰了孩子就打哪里。
然而很少鬼佬奶奶会这么说，通常都只是抱起孩子刺激，或者让孩子谨慎。

这我感觉广泛性有点像一种文明景象了。

注：我只是说少数景象，没有说一切人哦

sqmwlh

扩散孩子留意力吧，lz想多了。

网上清风

我知道大略是这意思，就是感觉育儿观点不同。
并且转移留意力办法蛮多的，华人奶奶们都拔取了打对方的办法

xqg555

鬼佬家娃从小吃面包，喝浓汤，俺们家的娃从小喝粥，吃烂饭
不必非得啥和鬼佬家同样-_-b

玄衣秀士

孩子摔了，就打哪里一下，这样的后果就是小孩当前本人摔了，就会打他人来泄愤。由于他从小就被教育本人摔了是地板的错，而不是本人的错。

whitecat

这个货色值得钻研一下，说的对。

bbs139

赞成, 也很不睬解这类做法. 摔了抚慰一下, 教育孩子本人谨慎就好啦. 本人摔跟头是本人不谨慎, 怨不得他人或者别的货色.

mailke

是这样的，这是华人育儿的一个过错的办法，把过错嗔怪在其它事物头上，逃避责任感。在国际当初也普遍的教育家长不要这样说，摔了本人站起来。

kyg071007

孩子摔了, 让他摸摸地板, 告知他地板也痛痛.

天真的创伤

爸爸去哪里，林志颖闹钟事情

coco

爸爸去哪里，林志颖闹钟事情

mk-999

是的，挺奇怪的

tna911

我家宝宝摔了，我看看不重大就不睬他， 他哭2声就又去玩了。 有时摔的重，我抱抱他，发现他到哭个没完了。 孩子不克不及宠啊。
有时感觉， 孩子摔了， 小孩儿怪桌子椅子的欠好， 孩子大了可能容易推辞责任。

qqqqqq

这个好！

pingsheng

Why should parents treat their kid like a fool by telling them either that the floor is to blame or that it has feelings? Why not simply telling him the truth, respecting him as an individual who is forming his own judgment and becoming wiser each day?

Am I being too serious?

华仑天弩974

There will be more pains in life. I reckon parents should comfort him by acknowledging his feelings, help him to organise those feelings, learn to accept pains and learn from them.

I would probably hold him, asking where he is hurt and if the hurt is very bad, and give him a big hug and kisses. After he is calm down I would tell him to mind any obstacles next time.

At the same time, there may not be right and wrong way of parenting in this regards. It may be more of a personal preference.